Perfectionism is not all bad. Think about it: perfectionistic managers develop the skills to blend reason, logic, emotion and insight. They rely on these tools to affirm their sense of purpose—a strategy that helps them solve and avoid problems, while providing motivation and comfort.
Managers who strive for excellence can lay strong foundations for their organizations. They:
- Aim for the highest standards, through ethical conduct and honorable motives
- Are dedicated to the organization’s mission, with support and intentionality
- Exude reliability, honesty, integrity, diligence and perseverance
- Honor organizational policies, rules and practices with the structure they provide
- Are detail-oriented, with a clear understanding of how things work
- Have few ego issues, seeking every opportunity to excel
- Are terrific teachers who help others learn and improve
But when taken to extremes, these traits create dissent, employee dissatisfaction and turnover.
The Downside of Perfectionism
When managers prioritize outcomes over people, everyone suffers. On the negative end of the spectrum, perfectionistic managers:
- Hold unrealistic expectations of excellence that people can never meet
- Engage in black-and-white thinking, leading them to reach rash or unfair conclusions
- Believe their way is the best way—in short, the only way
- Criticize those who disagree with their assessments and solutions
- Assume others cannot complete work as effectively as they can
- Take on too much work, without delegating, believing others will achieve lesser results
- Make goals seem more critical than necessary
- Often micromanage or control projects to ensure their standards prevail
- Can be tough to please, as results are seldom good enough
- Pressure themselves into doing better and continually need more from their people
- Are so focused on methods and results that they fail to notice (or deal with) their detrimental effects on employees
- Are unwilling to develop other leaders or successors, believing no one can lead the organization or replace them
Telltale Behavior Patterns
Perfectionistic managers exhibit widely observable behavioral patterns. They have a precise manner, with a keen attention to detail, punctuality, specificity and process. They show displeasure with those whose priorities differ, and they instruct their team to follow “the plan.” They issue compulsively frequent reminders and criticisms.
Perfectionists assign people to one of two categories: those who support their values and methods vs. those who dissent. Their attempts to teach or make suggestions are largely firm or critical. When these leaders receive negative feedback, they become judgmental and biased.
If some of these behaviors sound uncomfortably familiar to you, perfectionism may be jeopardizing your organization and career. Your people need room to breathe and the freedom to contribute with the skills they have. There’s almost always more than one way to achieve a goal. Perfection, as desirable as it may seem, is deceptively dangerous.
What do you think? Does the downside of perfection outweigh the upside? I’d love to hear from you. You can call me at 561-582-6060, let’s talk. And as always, I can be reached here or on LinkedIn.
